Thursday, September 23, 2010

Acceptance!

Accepting a person or a situation (the way they are) helps us to resolve the internal conflict of what could or should have been.

Monday, September 20, 2010

Sunday, September 19, 2010

How simple embroidery can teach us so much!

One day I was lying down in my mother’s lap as she was doing the embroidery. I asked her what she had in her mind for design, she told me "bunch of flowers". I laughed and said that it looked like a mess, with threads jumbling from here to there.

She smiled at me and said, it’s something to wait and watch.

Later, when the embroidery was done she told me to get up and have a look. I was amazed to see those flowers. They were such a mess and jumbled from lap and so planned and beautiful from top.

She told me that day, that’s how god plans our lives too. Sometimes when life feels so jumbled up...that time we need to remember this...God has a plan for my life and that is all I need to know.

It will not solve the problem but will give us the courage to face it!

Accept or Ignore Situations!

Accepting a situation helps us to find a solution and move on.
Ignoring it, only makes us stuck and feel miserable.

How to deal with words!

Getting upset, blaming, preaching , getting frustrated, running away from person or situation, or reacting is not the solution to some one's rude behavior.
Know, nothing can shake you without your permission, and reacting is only going to make you feel miserable. Then, how to respond to some one's rude words?
Well, make use of that beautiful smile for that persons ignorance and lack of knowledge and move on!